Showing posts with label Bar Mitzvah?. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bar Mitzvah?. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 6, 2006

Thirty (30) Days to the Bar Mitzvah


Last night I got an e-mail reminding me to send in a bulletin article and picture for N.'s Bar Mitzvah announcement. (They reminded me later than the deadline--but that is another story that has to do with a three month period without a clergy assistant at our synagogue).


Announcement? Picture?

But didn't we just do the bris (circumcision and naming) a few years ago?

I don't know why, but this step in the process just stunned me.

It's strange.

He started his tutoring last April--I put the appointments in my calendar but no emotions about that.

In August when we started homeschool, I added a morning service and Torah study to his schedule. I enjoyed teaching him the trop (tunes) and the meaning of his chanting.

I ordered invitations in October--eInvite is a great site! But no emotions--just a sense of when they had to get out in the mail.

I addressed nearly 100 envelopes. Here it was a concern about getting them in the mail before Thanksgiving.

But that announcement in the Bulletin business--that started it. I became Nervous Nellie immediately.

Tonight he had his tutoring session and then a meeting with the rabbi to begin working on his D'var Torah. As our rabbi went over the responsibilities and priveleges of being a Jew--I started sniffling! Oy Vey! My little yidele is becoming a Jewish adult.

Since I had not yet scheduled a photographic session, we took a picture with our digital camera--actually several pictures. We needed to choose! We included N.'s dog in the picture because he is doing a Mitzvah project involving collecting needed items for gift baskets for people adopting pets at our county animal shelter.

And his dog is his constant companion. He wrote a little article about his Bar Mitzvah and the Jewish ethics for considering the needs of our animals.


See the picture at the top? Aren't they beautiful?
I am kvelling.